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"That year of being hormone-free made me see A LOT of things much more clearly."

Hi, my name is Mack.

I identify as a Transman; I go by he/him.

I am currently working on becoming a professional tattooist.

What first brought you to GIDS?

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What did you hope for from the service?

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Can you remember your first appointment?

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What has happened since?

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What first brought you to GIDS?

I came out in 2012 at the age of 14. I had got my haircut only a couple weeks prior.

My family’s response to coming out was strangely okay and I was taken straight to my GP for a referral, however I had to re-come out a few months later and it was then that I realised my family weren’t going to be as supportive as I hoped. I dealt with severe bullying and my family gave near to no support.

What did you hope for from the service?

I hoped for support, help discovering myself and to build a future for myself.

Can you remember your first appointment?

I remember being extremely excited, but I was nervous for what was to come.

What has happened since?

I was referred to UCLH and was put onto blockers for a year. I am now 5 months on Testosterone, with an appointment with an adult clinic and I am only just turning 18.

What has been most / least helpful about GIDS?

Most helpful:

The support and constant motivation.

 

Least helpful:

I couldn’t find a flaw in the service, even if I tried.

What advice would you have for your younger self?

Be patient. Also, not everyone will accept you and that is fine.

What are your hopes for the future?

To complete my transition and finally find comfort in myself.

What advice do you have for others?

To families: 

Support your child. Understand this is NOT a choice, and having their feelings and trust being neglected can be traumatising.

 

To young people: 

Patience is key. For example; I really didn’t want to go on blockers, because I didn’t want to waste time, but that year of being hormone free made me see A LOT of things much more clearer.

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What has been most / least helpful about GIDS?

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What advice would you have for your younger self?

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What are your hopes for the future?

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What advice do you have for others?

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