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Hi, my name is Mack.
I identify as a Transman; I go by he/him.
I am currently working on becoming a professional tattooist.
I came out in 2012 at the age of 14. I had got my haircut only a couple weeks prior.
My family’s response to coming out was strangely okay and I was taken straight to my GP for a referral, however I had to re-come out a few months later and it was then that I realised my family weren’t going to be as supportive as I hoped. I dealt with severe bullying and my family gave near to no support.
I hoped for support, help discovering myself and to build a future for myself.
I remember being extremely excited, but I was nervous for what was to come.
I was referred to UCLH and was put onto blockers for a year. I am now 5 months on Testosterone, with an appointment with an adult clinic and I am only just turning 18.
Most helpful:
The support and constant motivation.
Least helpful:
I couldn’t find a flaw in the service, even if I tried.
Be patient. Also, not everyone will accept you and that is fine.
To complete my transition and finally find comfort in myself.
To families:
Support your child. Understand this is NOT a choice, and having their feelings and trust being neglected can be traumatising.
To young people:
Patience is key. For example; I really didn’t want to go on blockers, because I didn’t want to waste time, but that year of being hormone free made me see A LOT of things much more clearer.